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How We Think About ADHD

ADHD is about much more than paying attention. Understanding how it shows up, and what else can look like it, leads to the right kind of support.

Ages 2 to 21

Based on published research

Child completing a written task during a psychoeducational assessment

THE BASICS

What is ADHD?

ADHD is a common neurodevelopmental condition that affects how a person regulates attention, activity, and impulses. It is best understood as a difference in self-regulation and executive functioning, the skills that help us plan, get started, stay organized, manage time, and manage emotions. A child with ADHD usually knows what to do. The difficulty is doing it consistently, at the right moment.

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ADHD is strongly influenced by genetics and brain development, and a person with ADHD is not lazy or unmotivated. Many people with ADHD are creative, energetic, curious, and able to focus intensely on things that capture their interest.

Predominantly inattentive

Difficulty sustaining attention, careless mistakes, losing things, forgetfulness, and trouble following through.

Predominantly hyperactive-impulsive

Fidgeting, restlessness, talking a lot, blurting out answers, interrupting, and difficulty waiting.

Combined

Significant features of both. A person's presentation can change as they grow.

DAY TO DAY

What ADHD can look like

ADHD shows up differently at every age. Hyperactivity often becomes less visible with time, while difficulties with attention and organization tend to continue into adolescence and young adulthood.

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Starting is the hardest part

Knowing what to do, but struggling to begin, especially with long or repetitive tasks.

02

Losing track of time

Underestimating how long things take, running late, and last-minute rushes.

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Forgetting and misplacing

Homework left at home, lost belongings, and instructions that slip away.

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Restless body or restless mind

Constant movement in young children, often becoming inner restlessness in teens.

05

Big feelings, quickly

Frustration and emotional ups and downs that rise fast and are hard to settle.

06

Focus that comes and goes

Difficulty with boring tasks, but intense focus on things that are interesting.

Child working on a task board in the Inner Circle Therapy assessment room

Girls with ADHD are often first identified with anxiety or low mood, and the ADHD underneath is missed.

Young et al., 2020

OFTEN MISSED

ADHD in girls

ADHD is diagnosed more often in boys, but girls are frequently overlooked. In clinic referrals, boys outnumber girls by anywhere from 3 to 1 to as much as 16 to 1, while community studies find a smaller gap, which suggests that many girls are never referred.

Quieter symptoms: girls are more likely to have the inattentive presentation, which is less disruptive in class.

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Misread as personality: described as daydreamy, chatty, disorganized, or anxious.

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Working twice as hard: staying up late or over-preparing to compensate and hide difficulties.

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Visible at transitions: symptoms often become clearer when starting high school or post-secondary studies.

Age in the classroom matters too

A Canadian study of nearly one million children found that those born in December, the youngest in their grade, were more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than those born in January. A careful assessment considers developmental context.

DIFFERENTIAL DIAGNOSIS

What else could it be?

Difficulty paying attention has many possible causes, and ADHD often occurs alongside other conditions. A good assessment asks not only whether attention is a struggle, but why.

Condition

How it can look like ADHD

What helps tell them apart

Learning disability

Avoiding schoolwork, not finishing tasks, seeming not to listen during lessons

Difficulties are concentrated in reading, writing, or math. Attention is often fine in activities that do not rely on the weak skill. Both often occur together.

Anxiety

Restlessness, difficulty concentrating, avoidance, irritability

Attention problems come and go with worry and stressful situations, rather than being present across most tasks since early childhood.

Depression

Poor concentration, low motivation, unfinished work

Depression is a change from the person's usual self, with low mood or loss of enjoyment. ADHD difficulties are longstanding.

Autism

Distractibility or overfocus, interrupting, executive functioning difficulties

In autism, social expectations often stay confusing even when explained. Intense interests and sensory differences point toward autism. Both often occur together.

Language or hearing difficulties

Not following instructions, seeming not to listen

Difficulty understanding spoken language, rather than staying focused. Hearing should always be checked.

Sleep difficulties

Inattention, irritability, hyperactivity

Short or poor-quality sleep can mimic ADHD in children. Sleep history is an essential part of assessment.

Trauma or significant stress

Hypervigilance, distractibility, emotional reactivity

Difficulties begin or worsen after adverse experiences and are linked to feeling unsafe.

Giftedness

Boredom, daydreaming, off-task behaviour

Attention improves when work is appropriately challenging. Giftedness and ADHD can also occur together.

Relative immaturity

Higher activity and impulsivity than classmates

The youngest children in a grade are more often diagnosed. Comparing a child to same-age expectations helps.

OUR APPROACH

How a careful assessment helps

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A developmental and background interview

Early childhood, school history, sleep, and family history.

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Rating scales from more than one setting

Home, school, and, when age appropriate, the young person.

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Direct assessment

Attention, working memory, processing speed, and executive functioning.

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Other explanations considered

Learning disabilities, anxiety, mood, and autism, so recommendations fit the whole child.

Meet the assessment team

Marina Shapira Shocher, PhD

Clinic owner, head of the assessment department.

Dr. Cheryl Ackerman

Supervising psychologist.

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